In response to Tim's question, I'd say to be honest, but if the person didn't feel like sharing something they shouldn't feel obligated to do so (or for that matter, if the friends didn't want to know/hear some of it, they shouldn't have to). I'd also not just run around expounding on everything about myself to everyone (there is such a thing as too much information). Anyways... that's just my short answer, maybe something longer will come along later when I am more coherant.