here's some insight for some of you ladies maybe... Usually, at least for me, we are a little intimidated by your beauty, some of us (not me), to the point of not being able to talk to you. I figured out that basically, we just have to qualm our fears and the worst you can do is knee us in the groin, and you've never actually done that to me.... Just thought that you might want to know that in case you thought we didn't think you are beautiful, we just don't want to spoil our chances, so we don't take our chances:(

In a related story, I once asked a girl on a date on email and that was the stupidest thing I think I've done, cause then I had to wait until she checked and then replied instead of just going to her and having her tell me that she doesn't like me like that:) Hmm... did I learn from that mistake?

Also, I've found that I can have confidence in some situations, but not in others.... I've finally stopped trying to impress girls and just be myself and see if they like that... But I dunno, it doesn't seem to work, but then again, I haven't seen a girl in 2 weeks....