Hey Amidy, I was just wondering why you think it is the guy's duty to go out on the limb. It is true that some of us men whine about the situation, but from what I hear some of you women suffer from the same mindset of "why hasn't anyone of quality noticed me as being something special" that you criticise us for. Yes its ture girls want to be pursued, but so do men. I'm just interested in why you think it's the guys job. It seems to me that mindset just allows a women to sit back and feel sorry for themsleves all the more. It's just an excuse as I see it, not saying that we don't have our own.