am I asking too much?

I finally broke down and offered my congratulations to the ex today, for getting to go to antarctica in the fall. We didn't talk, but did exchange voicemails.

She informed me that she will be going with a new male friend that she's been hanging out with for the past few months. Sincerely, I am happy for her. I am glad she has found someone that she can share that with, because in all honesty, I was not that man. When I think back to our relationship I think about how we really didn't have that much in common. I mean, I did change because of her, but never in the way that would make us long term lovers.

I suppose I should not dwell on the past, but it CAN stop me from repeating my mistakes. It can also give me early warning signs. although, I'm still not certain if I should avoid all pitfalls? Is it better to go from relationship to relationship, or to wait out for someone you fall in love with?

Is there something fundamentally wrong with going home with someone you meet at a bar, having awesome sex, and then never seeing them again? Am I the kind of guy that could do that? Should I have upper and lower morale boundaries?

Well, this is me in oregon. Please leave a note, as I am a comment whore:) Also, Orlando Bloom's nipples are off to the side. I know, because I saw kingdom of heaven.

Peace-
Tim