I appreciate your response Jenny, and I suppose you are right for the most case. But I think we need to remember that all people classified as "men" are not the same. I may be an oddity, but I know that I prefer to be pursued and find absolutely no appeal in seeking after another without knowing they show the same kind of interest. I could go into why I think I'm this way, but ugh... that'd take too much thinking and typing. In short it's completely selfish, but isn't love a selfish thing? (When I say love in this case I mean the girl/guy kissy/smoochy kind.) And if anyone wants to disagree with me here, you're welcome to do so, but I will DESTROY your argument! MWA HAHAHAHA!!! Uh, yeah...